10.11.14

Family Day at Folly Farm


Following my hospital stay Ivy and I travelled down to my parent's house in Devon to give Josh a bit of a rest and a chance to do some work without having to look after us both. I returned to Pembrokeshire about a week ago and we decided to have a family day out at the weekend as we haven't had a chance to do anything fun all together for ages!

We had some free tickets to Folly Farm and had a great day out! If you're in the area I can highly recommend this attraction - especially if you have children. They have a great mix of farm and zoo animals, lots of indoor and outdoor play areas, vintage fun-fair rides and more!


I love that Ivy has grown in her confidence and independence over the last couple of months. She loved running around trying to pet the animals and I watched with equal horror and pride as she climbed to the very top of a large soft play complex and went down the huge slide again and again.

It was a great day and we were all exhausted by the end of it!


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27.10.14

Simple Hospitality // How to host a large family and not lose your mind

I am pleased to welcome Jenny from jennycupido.com as a special guest blogger in our Simple Hospitality series today. I am always inspired by Jenny's blog and her beautiful family and knew she would be the perfect person to share some wisdom on hosting larger families. She has posted more about hospitality on her blog so please do head over and check it out.


Hi there!  I'm Jenny and I'm going to be sharing about how to host for large families and feed them all and leave your house standing at the end of it all.  I am so grateful to Rachel for inviting me to share here on her wonderful blog.  I thought it would be a good idea to share a little bit about me before I dive in so you can get a picture of where I'm coming from.  

I have four children who are right now 6, 5, 3 and 2.  I live in a house in the country with my parents and for the past 3 years with my brother and his family of four.  So if you do the math that's…12 people, 6 adults and 6 kids in our house .  We spent the first year eating every dinner together and doing intense meal planning, kitchen duty scheduling and so on.  And being part of a local church we open our doors to as many people as we can, and have a lot of guests stay for weekends and even holidays. So it can be done!  But it does take some practice and a few practical tips to get started.  

So I wanted to share a few things that I've learned in hosting large families with children.  Having a group of adults is completely different to hosing families with babies and children.  Here's where to start: 

1. Share your home - make your home their home.  If you're precious about something then put it away behind closed doors before they come round.  If you see a toddler reaching for your heirloom crystal and it sends you into cardiac arrest as you jump up shouting NOOOOOOOOO - your reaction will only make your guests uncomfortable and nervous about being in your home (as well as worried about your mental state of being).  Whatever is out should be fair play. 

2. Close doors to create boundaries - Toddlers are naturally very curious and we've even lost toddlers in our home because they've walked into a bedroom and climbed right into bed completely unnoticed.  I keep all bedroom doors closed except the children's.   I will always find at least one child in a room doing something they're not supposed to.  I simply tell them this is not a play room and tell them to go play in another area and then shut the door behind them.  Don't be afraid to create boundaries in your own home.  

3. Be prepared to work - When you have one friend and their baby round for a nice cuppa and a chat you get to do exactly that.  But when you're outnumbered you'll find yourself ferrying between the lounge and kitchen with drinks and plates, showing kids the toilet, removing the tea and coffee as soon as it is consumed and periodically doing a house scan to see what any stray children are up to.  You probably won't get the chance to sit down and drink a hot cup of tea or have a good chat with all the guests, so just keep that in mind so you don't end up disappointed when they leave. 

4. Clean once they're gone - If you see biscuits crumbled into the floor, dribble on the couch and finger prints on your telly wait until your guests have left to get cleaning.  Just let them relax in whatever space they're in and just take care of it all once they're gone.  Again, cleaning while they're there makes them feel guilty that you're working and they're not.

5. Keep the food simple but tasty - it's always best to just keep things as simple as possible.  If you're feeding dinner to a crowd stick to one pot meals like shepherds pie or lasagne (ready made works well too!).  The more elaborate the food the less likely the kids will be interested and the more you'll be setting yourself up for a stressful evening.  

6.  Accept any help you can get - if a mum just can't help herself and wants to do the dishes, let her!  It makes them feel useful and is a great help to you.  If they offer to bring some food or drink when they come, say yes!  Don't make it any harder on yourself than it needs to be.  It's not a competition or a test, it's about enjoying your time together.